Involving yourself in the community

Involving yourself with the community is probably one of the most important aspects of moving to a New Zealand. The people in your community will be able to give you valuable advice and make you feel welcome, an important part of feeling settled in a new country.

In many situations it is often easier for the partner who is working to meet people and feel more settled, while the partner who is left at home with the children may at times feel isolated and homesick – one of the major reasons for returning to their country of origin. Community involvement for this partner is paramount in helping them settle and feel at home.

Libraries are an excellent source of information on the different range of groups and activities that are available in the local area . Another great way to meet people and become part of the community is by volunteering. Whether or not you have a job, you might want to spare a couple of hours a week volunteering for a cause you identify with.

Singles

Often if you have moved country as a single person it is related to your career. Meeting people through work is a good place to start. Libraries will often be able to advise on 'new migrant' evenings, which put you in touch with others who have recently made the move. Alternatively, you may wish to meet new friends in your area via a contact website, for example:

www.findsomeone.co.nz – Making new friendships www.adventuredate.co.nz –A fun way to meet new people (North Island only)

Couples

It is very easy to keep to yourselves when you are part of a couple, but it is very important to get out there and join in with the community. There are a number of activities you could take up as a couple, or maybe look at joining separate pursuits, which could lead to meeting a more diverse group of people. View the local community board (Community Directory) for more information.

Families with young children

Having children is a great icebreaker in many situations. If you have young children you can involve yourself in the community by attending playgroups or going to local coffee mornings run by other like-minded parents. If you move to a rural location, be prepared to travel and make the effort when you have small children, otherwise you may feel isolated.

Families with school-aged children

Moving countries with school-aged children will always be that bit trickier, as they will have already formed good friendships back in their country of origin. Encourage them to get involved with sport or other clubs outside of school, as this will help both them and you get to know more people. When picking the location in which you would like to live, bear in mind older children, especially teenagers and their ability to access activities, particularly if they are too young to drive.